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Arranging care for a relative

Your mother is about to be discharged from hospital, your partner can no longer manage everyday life alone, or you yourself are reaching your limits as a carer? Many care situations begin suddenly. Here you can read what to clarify before you post a request for another person, and what happens next.

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May you act for your relative?

A care request contains details about a person's health. Only post one for another person if you are allowed to represent them – for example with a lasting power of attorney (Vorsorgevollmacht), as their legal guardian (rechtliche Betreuung) or because the person has expressly asked you to.

Being related does not automatically mean that you may decide for someone or pass on their health data. If the person can still take part, involve them: what support would they like, and where do they want to be cared for?

This website cannot judge whether a power of attorney is sufficient in an individual case. Guardianship associations, the local guardianship authority or legal advice can help with such questions.

What to gather beforehand

You do not need any nursing knowledge. These four points help with the request.

What help is needed

With washing and dressing, eating, the household, medication or at night? Describe it in your own words – technical terms are not necessary.

Where and from when

Postcode and town where the care is to take place, and the preferred start. The full address does not belong in the request.

Care level

Is there a care level (Pflegegrad), has one been applied for or is it not yet known? Each of these answers is possible.

Who can be reached

Your telephone number and email address. Care providers only see them once you have selected one of them.

You do not upload doctors' letters or findings. Anything a care provider needs to know in more detail, you discuss with them directly later.

How to proceed as a relative

1. Choose the type of care and the place

At home, in a care home, for a few weeks, during the day or at night, or intensive care – the overview below helps you choose. The care request assistant in the portal then shows you whether participating providers can be reached at your place.

2. Create your own account

Free of charge, with your own email address, which you confirm once. In it you act for the person who needs care.

3. Post the care need

The registered home care services and care providers in the service area that offer this type of care are notified.

4. Choose together

Discuss the responses with your relative and choose the care provider together.

How registration works for private individuals is described on the page Registration.

Which type of care fits the situation?

Staying at home

A home care service comes to the home at fixed times.

Find a home care service

Moving permanently

When care at home is no longer enough, even with help.

Find a care home place

Bridging a period

After a hospital stay or when you as a family carer are unavailable.

Find short-term care

Relief during the day or at night

Care in a facility for part of the day or the night.

Find day care or night care

Ventilation or intensive monitoring

Specialised care outside hospital.

Find out-of-hospital intensive care

In a supported housing setting

Care by a home care service in assisted living or in a shared flat.

Find care in assisted living

A request covers exactly one type of care. If you need two – for example day care and a home care service for the other days – post two requests.

When it has to be quick

If a discharge from hospital is coming up, talk to the hospital's social services early on. Hospitals can also request follow-up care through Pflege Patienten – coordinate with them so that care providers are not asked twice.

Pflege Patienten is not an emergency or acute care service. In an emergency, call 112; outside surgery hours you can reach the medical on-call service on 116 117.

Questions from relatives

Yes, if you are allowed to represent them – for example with a lasting power of attorney (Vorsorgevollmacht), as their legal guardian (rechtliche Betreuung) or because they have expressly asked you to. Being related does not in itself entitle you to pass on another person's health details. If the person can still take part in the decision, involve them. This website cannot judge whether a power of attorney is sufficient in an individual case.

Yes. First you only choose the type of care and the place in the care request assistant and see whether participating providers can be reached there. For the actual request you then create a free personal account and confirm your email address. You do not enter any details of the care need on this website.

Registered home care services and care providers whose service area covers the place you entered and whose offer fits the request. They see the details needed for matching – such as the type of care, place and approximate distance, start, services required and care level – but no name, no address and no date of birth. A care provider only sees your telephone number and email address once you have selected it.

If a care provider expresses interest, asks a question or declines, you see this on your request in the portal; if you wish, an email points it out. Messages themselves are never included in emails. A response is not yet a commitment: a takeover is only agreed once you have selected a care provider and both sides have confirmed.

Posting is free of charge – registering and posting a request cost private individuals nothing at Pflege Patienten. This only concerns the platform: what the care itself costs and which services your long-term care insurance fund (Pflegekasse) or health insurance fund covers is something you clarify with the care provider and with your fund.

Post a request for your relative

Choose the type of care and the place, then create your free account. You enter the details of the care need in the protected portal.